Teaching Bear

So J and I have been told by many how our lives will change forever and that there is nothing we can do to prepare for this change. At least we know of this unknown. We know approximately when this change will take place and that we need to mentally prepare for this unexpected change. Its Bear though I feel sorry for. There is nothing we can do to explain to him how much his world is going to change. We can't really prepare him for the change that will come to his life. He will not be the only thing we care about besides each other. I feel so bad that I can't do more for him. :(